I own the 100mm 2.8 macro and I absolutely love it. It is also a great lens for portraits. One advantage you would have with this lens is on a T3i it would actually be a 160mm due to the crop factor of your sensor. Hope this helps.
Not 100% true.
A 100mm lens is a 100mm lens no matter what camera you put it on - it will still and always be a 100mm lens.
Now a few years go in the days of film the 35mm film format was "THE" most popular type of commonly used film - especially for DSLRs. As a result it became the "norm" for the casual, consumer and a good segment of the pro market - it was the standard. Now when digital came in making 35mm sized sensors was difficult and very expensive; as a result they reduced the size of the sensor and called them "crop" sensors. This is because they "cropped" part of what you'd normally see from a lens on a 35mm camera from the frame. This gives the appearance in a photo that the crop sensor us using a longer focal length lens that the lens is stated at - IF you compared it to a shot taken on a 35mm camera at the same standing position with the same focal length lens.
So unless you have experience of and are used to using 35mm sized film or digital cameras the "its like a 160mm lens" statement isn't of any worth because you've no prior experience of the 100mm lens to draw from.
I would argue that is also not necessarily true. I think somewhat of a mix of the two are correct, but in reality it really depends on your camera and sensor in terms of megapixels and size, and here's why:
My T3i is 18 MP and an APS-C sensor, 1.6 crop factor.
A Canon EOS 1D is a full frame (FX) sensor, but is still only 18.1 MP.
In order for the 1D to have basically the same number of pixels in a larger sensor, the individual pixels have to be larger in physical size.
So, I take my 1D, pop on a 100mm lens and I get my shot. I then take the 100mm lens and pop it onto my T3i. Now, my crop sensor, physically smaller in size, gets a smaller portion of the image circle focused by the lens on it, but...it is still capturing that smaller area on the same number of pixels. In reality, the T3i is capturing the same image as if I had used a 160mm lens on the 1D (well, very close anyway considering there is a slight difference in pixel count, but not much).
Where we see bigger ratio differences is comparing an 18MP crop to, say a 22 or 24MP FX format. Then it's not necessarily a 1.6x ratio exactly.
So, it's partly true to say it's the same (or at least would be for one example), but it gets funky on the math when the pixel counts are different to greater extents when comparing the 2 sensors.