I ran a few actions that I've made. They sound pretty intense when they're listed out, thus the reason for making actions!!
I'll try to make sense out of it
1. Duplicate your background layer.
2. Filter>Gaussian Blur @ 9.5-10
3. Set blending mode of your blur layer to Multiply
4. Make a Levels Adjustment Layer and using the middle slider, slide to make your lightness a little more appealing (not all the way, you'll tweak more later)
5. Select you background copy layer
6. Grab your history brush tool, and paint over baby's eyes, mouth, nose, hair, and any other details you want to remain crisp.
7. Flatten these layers.
8. Now under Image>adjustments>levels, make your final tweaking.
This effect is usually used to smooth skin. I use it for my senior girls and my brides. It also makes baby's skin look soft and newbornish.
I also brightened baby's eyes - this is another action I have set up
1. Make a Curves Adjustment Layer and without making any changes, hit enter.
2. Set blending mode of your layer to screen
3. Invert your layer (ctr I)
4. Using your soft edged paint brush, with an opacity of about 35 and a pressure of 30 paint over baby's eyes.
I also used this action to lighten up the texture in the blanket, and lighten baby's face a bit more.
Any Q's??
I'm not sure if I explained that well or not!
I do like your edits a bit more. That last picture of dad feeding the baby is now my favorite!