ottor
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My son has a friend who's getting married... They can't afford a photphr, and asked if I'd shoot their wedding.... I said no. Dont' have any interest in taking pictures of children or weddings.. Now..., I'm the bad guy. They keep saying that this couple dzn't care about how professional the pictures are or arent.. they're not fussy.. (RIGHT !!!) I've seen bridezillas!! I told them to buy a dozen throw-away cameras and distribute them among the guests to shoot and turn in at the end of the day - at least by knowing the way the picures were taken, there'd be no expectations, and the bad pictures would turn out to be a fun thing..
Simply put - I dont' know how. - I dont' have the equipment, nor the experience.
I dont' want to be the one that is responsible for the lasting memories of the biggest day in their lives... I'm not that good yet, and even though they can say now that they're not fussy, I know that I'll take some crap down the road ... "Who took THOSE pictures ???" Just because I can take a beautiful landscape or wildlife photograph, dznt' mean I can shoot a wedding... apples and oranges... I truely believe that no good deed goes unpunished, so I guess I'll just live with it.. but - I really am hesitant to do it..
So .... am I a bad guy, or should I just do it and re-enforce to them that they shouldn't expect a pro job?
As far as photography goes, I'm still to young and unsophisticated to have a 'reputation', but I wouldn't want to tarnish any imaginary one that people perceive...
What do ya' think ??
r
Simply put - I dont' know how. - I dont' have the equipment, nor the experience.
I dont' want to be the one that is responsible for the lasting memories of the biggest day in their lives... I'm not that good yet, and even though they can say now that they're not fussy, I know that I'll take some crap down the road ... "Who took THOSE pictures ???" Just because I can take a beautiful landscape or wildlife photograph, dznt' mean I can shoot a wedding... apples and oranges... I truely believe that no good deed goes unpunished, so I guess I'll just live with it.. but - I really am hesitant to do it..
So .... am I a bad guy, or should I just do it and re-enforce to them that they shouldn't expect a pro job?
As far as photography goes, I'm still to young and unsophisticated to have a 'reputation', but I wouldn't want to tarnish any imaginary one that people perceive...
What do ya' think ??
r