@calmwater By the definition (I was taught) a primary color is one that cannot be be created in pure form by mixing any other hues. Green can be created in its pure form by mixing equal parts of blue and yellow and is therefore not a primary by this definition. The OP specifically referred to the color wheel, which uses primary hues, as do the associated color schemes I discussed above. When you look at pure Red, Blue, Yellow or any of the associated family of hues, you are viewing the light reflected off them. As such this is considered "subtractive", meaning that when the white light containing the full spectrum strikes the color certain wavelengths are absorbed and others are reflected. That reflected light you see is the color. CMYK used in printing is also considered "subtractive", but after 10 years in that field, 2 yrs running a full color press as an apprentice to an overbearing master, and 8 years owning a publishing company, I swore not to go there again.
What you see on your computer screen, tablet, phone, etc., is not reflected light, it is projected light generated by the pixels in your screen. I'm no computer guru, but my simple understanding is that each pixel on a computer screen is composed of three small dots of compounds called phosphors surrounded by a black mask. The phosphors emit light when struck by the electron beams produced by the electron guns at the rear of the tube. The three separate phosphors produce red, green, and blue light, respectively, or RGB. This type of color is considered "additive", meaning that by varying the amount of light emitted by each phosphorus dot they are adding different amounts of the three colors together to create a projected light beam which the eye views as a color.
RGB was chosen as the color system on digital (as it was in color film) to use because it most closely resembles the workings of the human eye viewing it. The eye contains an array of of light sensing cells called cones and rods, with the cones being the ones that detect color. Those cones come in three varieties, red-detecting, green-detecting, and blue-detecting, hence the RGB format made the most sense.
Since the advent of CMYK and then later digital, there's been a disagreement between camps as to what comprises a primary color. If you follow the purest definition I used above then it's RBY, but the reality is that primaries can be whatever you want so long as they can produce "enough" of the other colors. Consider for a moment that using a primary palette of RBY you can literally produce an unlimited amount of colors, RGB on the other hand is limited to 167,777,216 (256*256*256). However, the human eye can supposedly only see 7,000,000 separate and distinct colors, so RGB far exceeds the capability of our vision anyhow. As for me, I don't like loose ends, it is or it isn't, so I lean toward the purest definition as a starting point. Especially, when dealing with color theory and the associated schemes, as unless the primaries are equally spaced around the circle none of the schemes work. Old Isaac Newton was a pretty smart fellow.