"god skills?" Are you kidding???? Both the skills you mention are well within the capabilities of almost anybody who can tie his or her shoelaces.
Try this: for the next two weeks, when you are taking photos, ESTIMATE the exposure, and SET it on the camera, and then shooting in MANUAL exposure mode, shoot the picture. Do not even look at the light meter, just SHOOT the picture. Do not cheat yourself on this. Estimate exposure, set exposure, take picture. Then, and only then, use the meter to arrive at its suggested exposure, and then take a picture. Then, review the two frames. The estimated exposure and the suggested, metered exposure. Then, make a third exposure, using the histogram and your own judgement as to how closely to follow the meter's suggestion, or how widely to deviate from the meter's suggested exposure.
If you try this method of estimating, then setting, then shooting, you will soon teach yourself what the right exposure is in each of the roughly 16 different light levels you will encounter during a typical North American day.
Can you recognize 16 different NBA players? Can you recognize 16 different soda pop brands at the store? Can you recognize 16 different potato and snack chip brands? I bet you can!
As for developing a steady shutter release--practice makes perfect. There are some methods that are available on-line and in photo books. I'd suggest looking into those. I'm short on time, or I'd write about it.