You guys have been so helpful! I don't know why I never posted here before but I definitely will look at those resources. I am such a hands on learner though, it's been hard to teach myself. I have read 3 digital photo books, read the entire D7000 manual and another book written for that camera body. I've read everything I can get my hands on and even watched you tube videos. Even after all that, my film courses back in my college days have taught me more than all those things because it was hands on. I would LOVE to have time/money to take more classes. You people are the next best thing though!
I understand it was shallow I guess I assumed I was far enough. The whole reason I got the lens was for bokeh in my portraits. I wanted beautifully sharp eyes while the ears and hair started to blur.. and a bokeh background, that would make my heart pitter patter! I just have a hard time shooting on manual with this monster. I adjust ISO thinking I' m adjusting white balance, then I adjust the focus mode thinking adjusting the exposure mode.... so confusing! I will try stepping it down.. will I still get bokeh? Is there a point in using a 50mm if I'm using a small aperture like the one on my lens? I keep reading this is great in low light but I haven't noticed it as much yet. I guess I need to get used to using that tripod/monopod.
Enough questions for now. I'm sure I've worn all you out!
BTW, I cannot figure out how to post a pic even from flickr. I'm assuming I grabbed the wrong link. Thanks for posting it for me!