Hmm...I have a Nikon D40 with a SB400 flash and a Nikon 55-200mm VR lens. That is my ENTIRE set up...I am a beginner...where on earth are you coming up with $1000 (body alone!) camera???
If you did not spend $1000+ on your setup as a newbie photographer, then obviously you were not the kind of user being discussed by the OP in this thread.
Though I, however, was the kind of person that the OP asked about. I did not consider it a very serious question at all, becuase the answer to me was "who cares if someone else has more expensive equipment than I? I care about my needs, not someone else's. I bought what I wanted, with what I could afford and what I thought would best serve my needs now and in the future".
Do all people think like that? I don't think so, but if thats ok with them, then its ok.
Anyone that thinks that it is wrong or improper, well deal with it becusae it happens all the time.
I was at a gas station this summer past. In rolls a Ford GT ($150,000 car) with a father and son in it. They could not find out how to get the gas cap open... and the father's words were "well since it is now your car for your 16th birthday... YOU learn how, and we'll deal with teaching you how to shift gears later".
The kid owned a $150,000 car, did not know how to get it into first gear, much less gas it up. I was not jealous, but chuckled and acknowledged that this was one lucky kid. Paid for my gas, and moved on.
I think that for many, that would be the best advice concerning this thread... just smile, and move on.
Its a great day out there today... time to get out and take a few pics!