Ballistics said:
Is this really being brought back up.... again?
Nope just trying to understand when and why alienating certain people or groups is okay to her.
For the record, I'm with you. I established my disagreement with her actions and motives in her thread, and then another thread was opened up about the same topic, and then a third.
Here's my take... not that anyone gives a ****, but here it is:
People forget where they come from, people forget that they were beginners, and people forget that there are actual people making these posts so the comments do get out of hand from time to time.
Everyone is well aware of how a person unfamiliar with C&C may react to a critique. Especially if it is vague. People are told they need thick skin, but what about the people that are interacting with brand new members?
Who's to say that they shouldn't inform individuals of what a proper C&C will consists of? You get to a point where you want to get to the point, a person has been here for a while and you should be able to hear... "#1 is not good because" and learn from it. It goes both ways, both the critiquer and the critiquee (yes both made up words) need to be prepared. Don't get me wrong, there's guilty parties on both sides of the coin. There's people who overreact, and there are people who really just say not nice things and call it constructive criticism. This is a community, and the people here are here to help, or be helped and hopefully both. There are individuals in this thread specifically who are amazing people/teachers/guiders that really benefit the community and I have personally learned a thing or 2. Not naming any names, they know who they are, they know what they do, and someone else will make a thread about them and kiss all of their asses individually anyway.
In photoguys scenario, I legitimately believe that he was not the sole cause of his demise. He got railroaded, and blackrose was the conductor. Most of the new members jumped down his throat, some older members even said things that were out of line, and it got ugly fast. I also believe now that I think back, that he was young. Probably around 15 or 16 or so. But people took his word that he was 31 (even though he definitely did not act like it), and tore him apart. It is what it is though, I don't have hard feelings for anyone involved... it's over and it's done with, and hopefully blackrose took that as a learning experience.