I came on here with the same question in mind. I just recently started a business with my photography and am trying to set up the sales part of it. What about selling through a website, especially for clients who don't live nearby? I like the convenience factor of a website for the client. They can sit in their own home and pick what they want. Also I can make "packages" and set order minimums if I wanted to. Anything else they order would be additional. I can also sell fine art from there. My concerns with that though are 1) the websites I have found allow the client to do the cropping before the order is complete (I think a picture with a terrible crop would reflect poorly on me, even if I didn't do the crop.), 2) I would prefer the print to come to me first to make sure everything is as it is supposed to be and 3) are they too impersonal? Are websites a bad idea for ordering? Should they be used for just advertising? I should point out that I don't have a studio either.
Website proofing and ordering is very common, because yes, it is easy and convenient.
However, it's not great for high sales numbers. As you mention, the client can sit in their own home and pick what they want. They might get emotional the first time the view the images, but they are unlikely to purchase at that time. Instead, they come back again (and again and again, according to the visitor stats on my photocart). So each time they come back, the emotional impact it lessened and their willingness to make that purchase is also lessened.
We can talk about what is easy, convenient and cool for the clients, but if we are talking about making money to put food on your table, you don't necessarily want what is convenient for the client...you want what will make them spend the most. You want them to have a sense of urgency...that is what makes people spend more than if they can take their time. You can do that with on-line ordering, by limiting the open time of the gallery, or offering a early-bird discount....but it's still not as effective as the in-person buy-now-only type of sales.
Although, the on-line ordering does open up your possible client base to friends & family of your initial client. For example, many weddings have family & guests that come from all over. You might be able to sell more prints if you have all those guests (and/or the ones who couldn't make it) able to buy them from your website.
Check out Photocart. It's an application that is loaded right onto your website/host, so you don't have to send clients to another site (Smugmug etc). You can set it to allow clients to view a cropped version, but it's just a sample crop, it's still up to you to do the actual cropping and there is a built-in message telling them that crops are approximate only. Photocart doesn't send the orders to a printer/lab, so you have to do that yourself...and you also have to arrange for shipping/delivery. So you can certainly have the prints come to you before you hand them over to the clients. It's a very customizable package that has many options and ways to tweak it.
It's a one time purchase, so you don't have to pay monthly fees or commission on your sales.
I highly recommend it, if you want to go with the on-line sales route.
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