About seven years ago, I did a couple of test sessions, using mini-size Christmas tree lights...the NON-LED, miniature bulb strings, multiple strings of which I suspended from a boom arm in front of the living room's gold-colored curtains. I started with gallery 1, using a Nikon D2x APS-C sized sensor with the 70-200 2.8 VR-I lens.
minilights gallery 1 Photo Gallery by Derrel at pbase.com
A few days later, I did gallery 2, using the 70-200 zoom, and also some shots with a 200mm prime lens. Using an aperture of f/2.8 gave the largest, and most perfectly-rounded shapes to the out of focus highlights. You can look at some of these uncropped images, and get a sense for size of bokeh balls versus camera to subject distance. I am going to estimate that the subject to BACKGROUND distance was around 10 feet. Camera-to-subject was from about eight feet to 20 feet, using the zoom to frame.
minilights gallery 2 Photo Gallery by Derrel at pbase.com