Theres a difference between help, and a refusal to accept anything that doesn't confirm what you want it to. That's what we have going on here. I think MANHEIM has it right - it doesn't seem like you have enough grasp on the absolute basics of this stuff to justify throwing everything and the kitchen sink into your shots.
Man..... Tough crowd.. You're right, I'm not a professional, nor have I spent one day in class for this stuff, but I guarantee you I could answer you any question you asked about how one thing set a certain way influenced another.. Maybe I'm at the limit of my equipment.. No need to be a dick about it.. Maybe you're right and I can't have the lights from the Christmas tree endear themselves to the photo.. Maybe that is the case, but just say that in those word rather than just saying that I don't know what the hell I'm talking about.. Yeah, I'm new to photography, but I've read about things like REAR CURTAIN that freeze motion in night shots, etc.. Maybe you're not there yet...
I thought that using slow sync I could achieve it, but evidently not.. So be it.. I don't expect miracles...
That being said, I don't see any reason to insist on full Manual mode? Is that like a badge of honor? I don't want to have to pay $1000 for camera gear and think about and set every setting.... Aperture Priority is a baby step off of AUTO, and it gives me the flexibility to choose flash modes, WB settings and Aperture.. Why would I want to have to worry about more? I'm not one who tries to brag or get glory for his shots, so I just get the shot however I get it... AP, AUTO or full Manual... The resultant shot is all that matters-not how you got it... I just want to send Christmas cards to family, whether I captured them in chest thumping Manual or sissified Aperture Priority..
The sad part is, ANDS!, I've read on here that you know your stuff, and if you don't like me, then I likely won't benefit from that, but I will not be talked to like I'm some sort of dumbass when I'm an electronics engineer and am only new to photography.. I can take being told that I'm at the limit of my equipment, etc, but to start getting personal is way out of line.. You can tell me why EV adjustments won't work, etc... I appreciate your help, but you seem to be confusing my conversation with other members with my dealings with you, and they don't jibe..
So be it.. Carry on.