So honestly after much deliberation Ive finally rested on a conclusion. Im going to go with the Canon. Yes it doesnt have quite as good image quality, moire, dynamic range, etc. However the biggest difference for me was Touch screen, Menu interface, and in hand feel. I like the handgrip on the canon slightly more, just fit in my hand better, and yes my current experience with Canon helped me immensely in navigating and understanding what settings its on, and how I could change them.
The Nikon has a more confusing interface, I couldnt tell what mode I was on, when I changed modes it still didnt help, the only way I was able to take any pictures that turned out fair at all, was on full auto minus flash. Dont get me wrong, the Dual SD slot is something I will miss, or miss out on. Plus the better HDR mode will be noticed, however I do have CS6 so, I can always use that rather than the Canon version, never used HDR before so it will be a learning experience.
I do think the Nikon is certainly better with imagery, but again, Im a beginner/intermediate user, not a pro. The biggest diference will be how im using the camera itself, and if my settings are all spot on. It also will be pretty nice to not have to re-learn how to use the entire camera, which will let me work with the camera a bit easier in general as well.
I am going to go on my next work day and play with the Nikon again, just to completely confirm my results, so Im not 100% set, but pretty much. Thanks for all the help guys. I do appreciate you guys helping me put in into perspective regardless of choice.