Well the real answer is you shouldve just made (or bought) the stupid sink out of fiberglass or stainless steel or porcelain, and you would've been fine without any more work.
Wood finishes that resist strong bases and organic acids and all the other crap in photo chemistry (especially if you're using harsher things like pyro) are few and far between.
You might be able to find a good chemical resistant water based polyurethane, but don't just assume it is, it needs to be made for that.
I appreciate your response but boy it sounds like somehow you believe I did something I didn't intend to. However let me be clear that as a traditionalist crafting a wooden sink to use in a home is a time honored tradition. Why would I spend hundreds on a sink when I could get just as much utility from less than half the cost? Add to that the enjoyment I get out of creating my own custom sink, photography for me is a holistic experience. Shooting photos is where I spend the least amount of time, processing is next, and then my entire life outside of photography is spent learning reading involving myself in everything I can to become a better photographer.
I did become a bit peeved with your first line as it added no value to your otherwise well formed and respectfully phrased response.
thanks for the rest of the comment, I will continue to search for the best coatings. It seems like the west marine coating is the most popular though somewhat expensive.
What I might end up doing is sealing the entire sink with concrete sealer in grey because I like the color and then coating the entire thing again in clear fiberglass resin which is also a popular coating.
Since I will be processing in trays my sink will perform only as a large work surface with easy cleanup drainage, it will never be used to flood or retain large volumes of chemistry at once.