Just to add a few ideas...
1) film has come a long way since what it used to be. 400 ASA films have pretty fine grain nowadays.
2) In my experiences, 400 ASA film tends to be a little more forgiving on exposure and development. If a beginner makes a mistake, you can still make prints from the not so good negatives.
my point...
400 ASA film is very functional. It can be used to do a lot of things. I'd start with it in the beginning. Slower films have their place, I use FP4+ a lot, but I don't think it's a good starting point. Hope that helps!