Adobe Lightroom is probably the most popular but there are people who use other programs. You'll find the most support, knowledge, tutorials, etc. for Lightroom (and Photoshop) due to their popularity.
The advantage to Lightroom is that it's primarily meant as a digital asset management system (most programs edit images one-at-a-time... digital asset management software manages ALL your images ... it keeps them organized, searchable, lets you "rank" your images so it's easy to find your best examples, etc. and curate your collections.) It also allows you to "sync" edits (e.g. if I shot dozens of images in the same light conditions, it would be time consuming to white-balance each image one-at-a-time... but with Lightroom you can adjust just one image, and then 'sync' the adjustment to the rest of them. This REALLY speeds up the workflow.
The downside to Adobe is that they no longer "sell" software... they "rent" it. They'll show you the monthly price for the Lightroom/Photoshop combo is $10/month... but it's really $120/year because they wont rent it for just one month (they let you make $10 monthly payments on the $120 annual subscription ... but it's not like you could subscribe for just one month and cancel... they wont let you do that.)
There are a lot of people who aren't interested in pay $10/month unless they think they're going to use it enough to justify the annual cost.
I've been waiting for Luminar (by Skylum) to release their digital asset management (promised to be out this year ... you can get Luminar now, but it doesn't have digital asset management yet). Mostly I'm interested to see how it compares to Lightroom.
I previously used Apple's Aperture ... and found Aperture did a better job on the digital asset management aspect. Unfortunately Apple cancelled the product so if you don't already own it, you can't get it. Since that time, I haven't really found much else that does a good job in this area other than Lightroom... but that requires the annual subscription commitment. Luminar is a traditional purchase model (not a subscription) so it would potentially save a lot of money IF the software can deliver on its promise.