Hi Danny,
I think you are expecting to understand several things without taking the time to read and fully understand how those things work. There are no real shortcuts unless you want to continue to get frustrated by trial and error.
I posted in one of your other threads something about reading the doggone manual. I honestly think if you slow down, take the time to read either the full manual or at least browse through the table of contents so that you can focus on the specific sections dealing with your issues; you would gain a better understanding. I'm guessing that Nikon does at least equally as well in their manual as Canon does.
If you are not one of those people that has the patience to read the manual - take the time to practice using our camera on still subjects (leave the birds alone for a while). Set a stuffed animal or beer can (whatever) up somewhere in your yard and practice shooting it. I would suggest in manual mode, F8, 1/1000 and auto ISO as you seem to like. Take a shot in each metering mode while checking the histogram after each time (read your manual to show you how to get to and read the histogram - IT'S IMPORTANT). If the majority of information in your histogram is to the left of center, then use positive exposure compensation to push it towards the right (If your camera allows you to use exposure compensation while in manual). That should increase the ISO only. You may also decrease the shutter speed instead of using exposure compensation. However, note that when you are shooting at a real bird, decreasing the shutter speed will negate some of the reason you chose that speed initially.
Make sure you place your teddy bear in a shaded area for one set of shots, and then in a backlit area for the next set of shots (again switching the metering mode each time). Study each shot in each scenario on the camera lcd, and again when you load them into Lightroom. Make sure LR has the overlay preview information with shutter speed, ISO and aperture showing.
I keep saying there are no shortcuts, but.........I truly believe reading the manual is actually a shortcut.
Oh - btw, my own little thought about exposure compensation is ---- whatever the predominant shade is in my scene, I move exposure towards it. So if my Egret is surrounded mostly by dark water or dark background (trees, grass, bushes etc.) then I move my exposure compensation towards the negative. If my Raven is against a bright sky (backlit) then I use positive exposure compensation.
Thank you, I have read thew a manual, more like skimmed thew it. i am one of those people that never really read a manual, i just pick something up and learn to use it.. back when i got my first DSLR i read and read and read about it. it was the first thing i ever got where i had to really set and learn how to use it. i remember buying or getting a book by nikon that told you how to use everything. and i remember reading this here on nikons website..
Nikon | Imaging Products | DSLR Camera Basics . this was a long time ago and there was a long period of time where i did not own a DSLR till i got one again 1.5 maybe 2 years ago. i am going to read thew my manual more thorough and than i am going to start doing some more reading from that link aswell.. i though i knew my camera pretty well, but you are all making me feel like a NOOB again!!!!
i understand how to read a histogram.. i just refreshed my self on that one yesterday and i turned on the histogram in my camera yesterday, reading the in camera histogram never ever crossed my mind before so i am glad that was mentioned to me, i am gonna check that from now on. i ask these questions because i am having trouble and hope someone will point me to some info that is informative and i can understand. so far i think i have got some helpful info out of this thread so far.
i have tried your metering test with my D5300 when i first got it, i do not remember reading much about metering till yesterday and i realize spot metering was probably the wrong thing to be using, however i have done the metering test when shooting landscapes or a stationary object on a sunny day only, i did not really notice any difference between the 3 metering modes, the photos pretty much looked the same, maybe i was doing the test with the wrong type of subject and i only tried one type of lightning condition...
the other day had a lousy light when i went to shoot birds i had matrix metering set, the next time i went out on a lousy lit day i used spot metering. both of those settings seemed to give me underexposed images so i played with the exposure comp both days, i got some good photos and some bad photos both days. most of the time i look something like metering up and its a short article, only semi informative and tells you the very basics of the subject only or its just too technical for my brain to understand. but short and to me it seems like i only get the very basic understanding out of it.
as far as changing settings to get more light, with the new lens i can shoot it wide open, f/6.2 i think it is at 600mm and the images still look sharp but they do look better at F/8 so i try to stay there if i can. for shutter speed i really do not want to go less than 1/100 because when something moves i do get blur images at times, even at 1/1000 some times a flying bird has some wing blur going on, most of the time it does not but some times it does...
allot of the things i am shooting are not very close. so they do not take up the screen, when i get something that is close to me i get a good exposure, but a wood duck way out in the lake or a blue bird up in a tree is a different story on these types of days.