Blake.Oney said:
Agreed. I wasn't even going to use it, but I thought it went good with the full set (around 22 pictures). The original idea was to have them all looking at the camera, but to add to what you explained, between the children suddenly moving a hand and blurring a great shot, or what happened with that one, or a number of other things, sometime the shots I have to choose from one certain pose are of small number. I do shoot a lot, but there are always at least 1 or 2 shots/poses where I just don't have that many to choose from with kids. I think it accents the whole set fine, but if the shot I was aiming for would have worked out it, I believe it would have been one of the main shots of the set.
Yes, I know what you mean...boy, do I EVER know what you mean Blake. Back in the day, shooting on film, a 100- or 200-frame session was simply, totally out of the question. Film costs and proofing costs, plus shipping and lab work all meant fewer shots, and an effort to not TAKE a bad shot. But, as you are finding out, in family photography, many shots are ruined by the parents trying to do YOUR WORK for YOU, and they can quite easily ruin an otherwise good shot. I see how hard you are working at getting into portrait/commercial work,and so I took the time to pass along a tip specifically for you. part of working with parents of small kids is to explain to them, in a non-offensive way, that there are X or XX number of good shots possible in a session that involves a small kid or multiple kids, and that there is only ONE "camera-eye", and that the biggest way to botch a family group is to look down at the kid(s) to see if he/she/they are looking acceptable. Parents that continually monitor the kid(s)' behavior/expression easily ruin sets, and it gives the kids POWER...it is something you need to learn to discuss with the parents before the session. many times, you must actually say something to the parents during the shoot, like, "look at me, Mom, keep looking here, I'll make sure the kids look good before I trip off the shot." Seriously...many parents need to be told this during the session, once, twice, maybe even three times if they are micro-manager types.
That is YOUR JOB...that is what they are paying YOU to do...to use your skills at entertaining, joke-telling,smile-eliciting, people arranging,lighting,and timing. There are only "so many" really GOOD expressions that a small child can give before the kid burns out,and gets cranky, fussy,pouty, or even sick to his or her stomach, cries, throws a fit or tantrum,etc,etc.
I am trying to pass along something that will help you be able to deliver more successful shots, and to get fewer Mom-riding-herd-on-kid frames.