thanks so much for the info, i was afraid to jack the ISO up. I shot one time using a high iso and it was grainy as hell. I guess it would have been better than being out of focus.
As you have now seen, weddings are hard. Really hard.
I've seen posted, more times than I can count, "I'm doing my first wedding, and...." yet the poster has never attempted to apprentice with an established photographer. The result is the photos posted. There are some freak cases that the photog pulls it off on the first time, but those occassions are rare.
Had you shot the rehearsal, you would have been more prepared. Just another reason to go to the rehearsals. For free. Just to cover your own butt and be ready.
And the statement quoted above is also something I see posted all the time from first time wedding photographers.
If.....you....have.....to.....shoot....1600....shoot....it....
Also, if you shot this yesterday, or a day ago, then you should still be working on the photos fixing the things that CAN be fixed.
You wanted tough love. This is tough love.
Every single photo below was shot at 1600, and as you will notice, there is no decernable noise in any of them:
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I'm not saying to give up. I don't want that at all. But this is not something to PRACTICE on. If you want practice (and all first time wedding photographers should), you really need to find someone who is willing to teach you. Weddings are a tough gig, but beyond that it's a once in a lifetime milestone.