Hello, my name is Scott and I'm a photoholic.

[Yemme]

You just want that big glass in your hands dont you?

:greenpbl: I've always loved big things.

 

[Yemme]

I'm seriously frustrated right now. I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to do something about my kid and his mom. Every time I have to take him home to his mom's house I have to see the most depressed 3yr old I've ever seen. It's horrible not to mention the scream fest when he actually gets there. The screamfest wouldn't bother me so much except when I get there it's the opposite kind of screamfest "IT'S DADDY" "I SEE DADDY" He's usually halfway out the door by the time actually knock. It really hurts to have to drop him off and have him do nothing but scream "I WANNA BE WITH DADDY" and "I WANT YOU" (as he reaches for me) after peeling him off of me. It's bad enough I don't get to see him for almost a week each time I drop him off but the crying and screaming just HURT like crazy.

MK that is the sweetest thing ever... :hug::. Why can't you guys work on a living arrangement that better suites your son. If she's not working or is working move closer to you since you will be in school. Your daddy and he needs to see you every day. This has made me so sad.... I can't imagine how you feel.

 

[monkeykoder]

Yeah I don't really know what to say about the whole situation. It worries me that he has such a strong reaction to going to his mom's house.

 

[Yemme]

Well there is the male bonding factor and he doesn't get to see you as often. Maybe if you guys worked out a 6 month back and forth that would be great. Like you aren't in school so you should have him for this break time that you have. It's an idea. I'm sure he loves you both but when he's beginning to bond with you ..... you have to bring him back.

 

[monkeykoder]

Yeah I don't know. I'm going to talk to his mom about having him alternate weeks.

 

[Big Bully]

Poor kid. Yeah little boys need their daddies. I have noticed that when Kev is gone for any period of time, even if he is just at work for a 12hr shift, the boys notice and it effects them.
There has to be a way for you to work things out. How often do you get to have him?

 

[monkeykoder]

I have him 2 days a week.

 

[monkeykoder]

Note to self quit talking to ex-girlfriend who doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

 

[Yemme]

You gotta get you one of these....[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jgM7SceF74]YouTube - Melissa Cherry - The Onion Movie Spanish Subs[/ame]

 

[monkeykoder]

Half of me wants to just teach her what sex is and let the rest of the problem sort itself out.

 

[Yemme]

You are so complex!

 

[monkeykoder]

She wants the sex more than I do.

 

[Yemme]

What are you a virgin!

 

[monkeykoder]

Might as well be... (I know I shouldn't state the obvious... next time I won't mention her wanting it more than I do...)

 

[Yemme]

If every man was as lucky as you....