I'm more bi-polar about myself... I can either be incredibly happy with myself or quite a bit down on myself. Somedays you just need to hear something good about yourself and it's been a long time for me since I've had someone say something nice about me (at least a person that actually knows me). I know it sounds kinda lame (even though you know you feel the same way) but I need it sometimes and frankly the ex is the only person I really know of that is willing to say good things about me or encourage me (at least that can do it face to face or over the phone).