B&H is the furthest thing from a scam. There are only a handful of companies I give my hard earned money to for camera gear and trust 100% to deliver and to back up the product with a no BS customer service policy. B&H is one of them along with Adorama (where I do most of my shopping).
B&H and Adorama are both legit. I buy from them anytime I feel that I have too much money in my bank account and they get right on it and take care of my problem!
one thing I like about Adorama... and I may be speaking about my cheapness, is their line of products, such as "Flashpoint". These are basically the photography version of store brand soda. I would never use them for stuff that mattered, but for things like tubes, battery grips etc. they are great.
Thank you ALL for your many kind words. This is very gratifying. To the OP -- if there's any way we can assist you, please feel free to contact me. My email address is in my sig.