But it seems that my new camera (Nikon D5100) assumes I would know the ideal ISO Setting myself now, unless I would choose AUTO mode.
But how does one decide about this ? Anyone got some tipps ?
Actually, your D5100 has a function to help you with this. It's called Auto ISO sensitivity control and you can read up on it on page 155 of your D5100 manual. It's available in the PSAM modes.
Auto ISO works in any mode, but it really shines in A mode. It's A mode that utilizes the "Minimum Shutter Speed" setting (P mode does as well, but it doesn't work as well as A mode.) To make use of the MSS you first make a decision on the slowest shutter speed you're willing to use for the current subject matter. If you're shooting people standing around at a picnic, you may go as low as 1/60s. If you're shooting sports you'll likely need at least 1/250s or 1/320s as a minimum. Most animals at the zoo need at least 1/120s just because they don't stand still...except for koala bears, where you might get away with 1/30s.
Once you've decided on a shutter speed, you press the MENU button, select the shooting menu, and select Adjust ISO sensitivity. You select "ON" for "Auto ISO sensitivity control" and set your "Minimum Shutter Speed" to your chosen shutter speed. Set the camera to A mode and you're ready to shoot.
Here's what will happen. The camera will remain at the lowest ISO and operate as usual in A mode, adjusting shutter speed to give you correct exposure (well...standard exposure..."correct exposure" is something else entirely. Anyways...) Now...if something happens that causes the shutter speed to drop (such as clouds, sun setting, or setting a narrow aperture such as f/22) and the shutter speed drops to your Minimum Shutter Speed setting, then the Auto ISO function kicks in and will increase ISO to prevent the shutter speed from dropping any further. In this way you're protected against shutter speeds that are too slow for your subject matter.
What you're essentially doing is programming the camera to behave a certain way under well defined conditions. In this case, you're simply telling the camera to always shoot at or above a particular shutter speed, and to raise ISO if necessary to maintain that speed. It's exactly what you would have done if you were shooting in manual mode, except that you made the decisions of what should happen beforehand. This allows you to shoot freely without the distraction of having to monitor shutter speed.