Wow. I guess I took the wrong tone also huh? Once again I am sorry if I went about this the wrong way. I really didn't know where to start with my questioning. I have always liked photography, my mom always owned really nice cameras growing up. So I was always tinkering with them. I do realize that it seems that everyone and there brother "thinks" that they are a photographer and I respect any and everyone that truly does this as a job and hobby.
What I meant by ripping off is we have been going to the JCPenneys and or Sears photo studios to have the pics done. We have not felt the quality of the pictures have been that great. I do recognize that is not the only places to have photography done. But we are on a budget and have to be careful with the money that we spend.
As far as my budget. I am willing to put about 3 to 4 grand into this to get me up and running. I know that I have a lot of learning to before I can have decent looking pics. My wife and I are enrolling in a couple of photography classes once we decide on our camera.
Once again, I am very sorry if I insulted anyone. I am not here to downgrade what photographers can do. I am here to learn you art.
I don't think you insulted her, she didn't sound offended in her post, in fact she was very helpful IMO.
Good information can be had here on this forum, but you have to do a little digging for it and wading through the useless posts and snide remarks of some.
My $0.02...
First you'll want to decide which brand you'd like to buy into. I say buy into, because you're not just buying a camera, you're buying into a line of products including the camera body/lenses/accessories. The big one is lenses, but we'll get to that.
So, for the camera here is a link of what I'd consider the top three "Entry Level" DSLR's. Trust me, they each have more functions than you'll know what to do with, but the basics are all the same so all will be good in your future photo classes.
Compare cameras
Obviously I'm biased toward Pentax, but it's mostly personal preference. Get them in your hands and feel which one you like. Ultimately, if you don't like holding it, you won't want to take pictures with it.
Lenses, for portrait work a lot of folks use the "Nifty Fifty" lens, some like a longer focal length for a bit of an extended "personal bubble" and different look in the photos, while others like a shorter length for a much closer "in your face" look. For a kid, I'd suggest just use the kit lens that comes with the camera and maybe pick up a cheap manual focus 50mm f/1.x to play with and learn until you decide whether you like closer or farther shots. Those two lenses will give you excellent photos to begin with, but eventually you'll want to upgrade. By that time, you'll know what you want and won't need suggestions.
Lighting: This is pretty basic. You can make do with cheap materials "DIY" style, or you can buy a more "Pro" kit. I'd suggest using what you have first, i.e the sun coming in a large living room window diffused by a thin white curtain; then go from there. Start small, buy a simple 24" reflector first, learn to bounce light from the window to fill the shadows; then maybe an off camera flash using an umbrella or softbox, and keep going.
Also, here's a thread from a member on this site regarding kid portraits. She's fantastic and uses VERY simple studio equipment that can be had for much less than your budget, not to mention she uses the window/curtain method I mentioned above and get's fantastic results.
http://www.thephotoforum.com/forum/people-photography/190903-pullbacks-set-ups-hth.html
Another thing I'd consider essential for portraits/studio work would be a tripod. Get a good, sturdy, rock solid tripod with your choice of heads (Ball head or pan/tilt head). You're not going backpacking so the big metal tripods work great for in-home/studio use.
If you're wanting to go all out and buy everything up front...don't. You'll end up buying stuff you may not need/want, or you'll end up wanting to upgrade to larger/different proucts. Start slow, trust me.
But...if you must buy everything up front, here's some links of products that I think would work well for starting out, they aren't too pricey and won't kill you if you want to upgrade down the road.
Lightstand/Umbrella combo pack.
SPOCFAKIT Studio Pro Off-Camera Shoe Mount Flash Accessory Kit, with Lightstands, Umbrellas & Case
Tough/Rugged Flash (fully manual):
233965 Vivitar 285HV Non-Dedicated Shoe Mount Flash with a Maximum Guide Number of 140 @ ISO 100
Tripod legs:
190XPROB Manfrotto 190XPROB 3 Section Black Aluminum Pro Tripod Legs (Height 3.15" - 57", Maximum Load 11 lbs)
Ball head:
496RC2 Manfrotto Compact Ball Head 496 with RC2 Rapid Connect Plate, Maximum Load: 13.2 lbs/ 6 kg
Pant/Tilt Head:
391RC2 Manfrotto 391RC2 Pan & Tilt Head with RC2 Quick Release - Supports 11.00 lb
The camera/lenses you'll have to research on your own, it's too much of a personal choice.
I hope that helps! :mrgreen: