I think an apology is needed.

[Kbarredo]

Bitter I think you should go first





















Jk jk I have to apologize for my hurtful words to you everyone that I offended. Especially you sabrinaO I was totally out of line. I know its no excuse but I had been up for 25 hours straight so I was more bitter than usual. Your work is not bad. Ghache Im sorry for calling you a douche and Nick im sorry for insulting your work as well. Hopefully you guys can accept my deepest apologies and we can move on from this fiasco. Sabrina I honestly hope for the best for you. Bitter and tyler I am also sorry about my homosexual remarks. You are no longer on my ignore lists. I will cut down on the whiny threads and try to stick to asking questions that will improve my skills.

 

[MissCream]

This reminds me... Where has Rockstarphotography been?

 

[Robin Usagani]

I bullied him .

 

[subscuck]

Speaking of MIA's, where's Kundalini been?

 

[Robin Usagani]

Africa. He will be back with awesome photos I hope (if he doesn't get eaten by a lion).

 

[subscuck]

Ah, seems I should pay more attention. I'd be more worried about the lion.

 

[Kbarredo]

Why does this remind you guys of rockstarphotography

 

[subscuck]

He used to whine a lot and start a lot of drama, too.

 

[Kbarredo]

Oh

 

[Robin Usagani]

Anything can be fixed Kbarredo. Just make another account with a different name LOL JK. No really... just give it some time. Just like in real life, you need to be more humble. Me and bitter butted heads too in the past. I still havent received his apology .

 

[Kbarredo]

Well my anger has gotten me into some stupid arguments on forums before. This place is different though. I feel that I can actually learn and grow from this place and I dont want to ruin that. The last thing I want are angry people giving my photos cc.

 

[AgentDrex]

Well, I don't know about you all, but I reserve no apology for that loser AgentDrex...he has got to have some of the worst photography ever and if I could I would remind him of that fact everyday. Plus, he's a complete douche-bag...

 

[subscuck]

The last thing I want are angry people giving my photos cc.

Then I'd say you have nothing to worry about. It's generally the person receiving C&C who gets angry.

If I may make a suggestion based on your posting history; Your replies in other peoples threads quite often come off as you attempting to sound like you have the mastery and experience of a seasoned pro of many years. Like in Sabrina's last thread. To people on the forum this has the appearance of someone trying to be something they're not, or just plain arrogance, or maybe even motivated by jealousy. When you can offer advice/opinions/help in an objective manner based on your level of experience, by all means, do so. That's what fora are there for. In matters where you don't have the knowledge or experience, let others who do have those things answer. It's OK to have opinions, but sometimes it's hard, concise answers people want, not opinions.

Like Schwetty said, this can be repaired, but it will require you staying humble, cool headed, and sticking to what you know. Some people will warm up faster than others, and some will never warm up to you, but that's forum life.

 

[o hey tyler]

Danke schoen.

 

[PhotoTish]

Well my anger has gotten me into some stupid arguments on forums before. This place is different though. I feel that I can actually learn and grow from this place and I dont want to ruin that. The last thing I want are angry people giving my photos cc.

With respect Kbarredo you are your own worst enemy. I usually steer clear of your posts because they always erupt into arguments. Take this thread for example, I looked because I thought you were making an apology for your own behaviour and proposing to make a fresh start but, no, you are asking for an apology from those who you perceive to have maligned you in the past. If you want to build bridges, how on earth did you consider that this thread would help to do that?

That you have had problems on other forums would suggest that you brought the problem with you and now history is repeating itself. Perhaps the answer is for you to learn to control your anger and consider what you post before you do so and end up in another argument. A good rule of thumb is the old saying that you should treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.

I hope you can modify your own behaviour so as to avoid unpleasantness. To do this would be in your own best interest because, without doubt, there is a lot of help and advice here which will prove invaluable to you and your photography skills.

I wish you well and hope you can learn to interact with others in a more peaceful way.