I think I'm ready to go pro! C+C please!

[MissCream]

I'm happy with one kid and not planning on having any more

 

[mishele]

Net time can you take me to the concert instead of the baby!!!

 

[ngaerlan]

I like this photo, it makes me want to make a baby while wearking earphones listening to U2 and drinking beer all at the same time !


www.eternal8photography.com

 

[e.rose]

I NEVER ever ever ever ever want kids...................... ever.

Are you absolutely, dead straight, no joking, dead ass sure, certain? No hum hawing for answer now.

I would get my tubes tied tomorrow if the doctors wouldn't think 25 is too young. No hum hawing here. I've had extensive conversations with many a people accompanied by very serious reasoning.

DEAD. Serious.

Not every woman in the world is destined to be a mother. And if I have any say in it... I won't be. The only one deciding otherwise is God, and if that accident occurs before we get a chance to snip our insides, I'll cross that bridge when I come to it... which hopefully will be never... since Keith turns "old enough" to decide what he wants to do with his loins in a few years. ::rolls eyes::

 

[e.rose]

Kids are the ultimate goal in life, imo.

Am I not alive? AM I DEAD?! OMG! Guys... I think I'm dead... if kids are the ultimate goal in life... then I must not be alive... because... because I NEVER ever ever ever ever want kids...................... ever.

I suppose we're all different. You don't picture yourself with a family of your own, some day?

Absolutely not.

EDIT: Wait... no. That's a lie. I HAVE pictured myself with a family of my own some day. And now I have it. The perfect family. The one I've always wanted... Me, my husband, and my cat. (Who is THE SWEETEST cat in the world by the way. And I don't have to wipe his ass. Just pick up his poop with a shovel, throw some bowl in a food for him, run around the yard with him once in a while and INSTANT luffs forEVEEEEEEEEERZ from him! :lmao: )

Settle and just live happily ever after with a man you'd die for?

Absolute. I'm already married, so I've taken care of that already.

I'm 20, and that's what I'm picturing... Not with a man, obviously....

edit: not kids in themselves, but what they represent... and a little bit the kid themselves

I'm confused. What are you picturing? Kids or no kids? You lost me.

@e.rose - consider joining VHEMT, I know I have...no more procreating for me...save the planet...stop making babies

I'm not against OTHERS having kids... just ME having kids. :lmao:

 

[NikonME]

Most people strive to leave their mark in life.. A beautiful painting that people talk about forever.. Elegant architecture that lives on long after you are gone.. but in the end, children are the most valuable thing you can leave behind. They will live on, as will their children.. and theirs.. I am a proud father of two sons and a daughter.

 

[subscuck]

I NEVER ever ever ever ever want kids...................... ever.

Are you absolutely, dead straight, no joking, dead ass sure, certain? No hum hawing for answer now.

I would get my tubes tied tomorrow if the doctors wouldn't think 25 is too young. No hum hawing here. I've had extensive conversations with many a people accompanied by very serious reasoning.

DEAD. Serious.

Not every woman in the world is destined to be a mother. And if I have any say in it... I won't be. The only one deciding otherwise is God, and if that accident occurs before we get a chance to snip our insides, I'll cross that bridge when I come to it... which hopefully will be never... since Keith turns "old enough" to decide what he wants to do with his loins in a few years. ::rolls eyes::

I got yer back, Em. Kids aren't for everyone, nor is marriage. My son turns 20 in a few weeks, and I'm proud to be a father. However, my marriage (failed marriage, that is) taught me I shouldn't be married. Yep, everyone's been telling me for years now that I don't mean it, I'll find the "right woman" who'll change my mind, etc. Bull ****t. I'd prefer not to be like one of my great aunts who's been married and divorced six times. I know what's right for me, and you know that not being a parent is right for you. A good friend of mine and his wife decided 25 years ago when they got married they didn't want kids, and they still have friends and family telling them with modern medicine, it's still not too late. Good Lord.

 

[e.rose]

Most people strive to leave their mark in life.. A beautiful painting that people talk about forever.. Elegant architecture that lives on long after you are gone.. but in the end, children are the most valuable thing you can leave behind. They will live on, as will their children.. and theirs.. I am a proud father of two sons and a daughter.

Good for you?

::insert slow clap::

:roll:

Are you absolutely, dead straight, no joking, dead ass sure, certain? No hum hawing for answer now.

I would get my tubes tied tomorrow if the doctors wouldn't think 25 is too young. No hum hawing here. I've had extensive conversations with many a people accompanied by very serious reasoning.

DEAD. Serious.

Not every woman in the world is destined to be a mother. And if I have any say in it... I won't be. The only one deciding otherwise is God, and if that accident occurs before we get a chance to snip our insides, I'll cross that bridge when I come to it... which hopefully will be never... since Keith turns "old enough" to decide what he wants to do with his loins in a few years. ::rolls eyes::

A good friend of mine and his wife decided 25 years ago when they got married they didn't want kids, and they still have friends and family telling them with modern medicine, it's still not too late. Good Lord.

I have a friend who is 37 and child-free and SHE has people telling her that too. :roll: I'm 25. Every year I get older I want children less and less. Why anyone gives a sh*t what I do with my uterus is beyond me.

I have a full rant and explanation as to why I don't want kids posted to another forum, but I don't want to continue to derail THIS thread.

Bottom line is, If I was going to change my mind, at the age of 25, I would have had doubts by now about my decision. I don't particularly ENJOY 95% of children. And I have a legitimate phobia OF having children. My beliefs also prevent me from wanting them.

And before anyone asks, no, my husband doesn't want them either.

Thanks for having my back Sub,

I don't pester a friend of mine who is committed to never getting married... as you said, its' not for everyone. Neither are kids.

 

[shortpants]

e.rose I have one kid and I still have a phobia of others Children are not for everyone. I love mine to death, but yeah, totally get your mindset.

 

[Ryan L]

Maybe I can change your mind. You're not the conservative type, so maybe you would like them better if you think of them as Fu(k trophies instead of children. lol, I kid!

 

[ultimadrift]

When did this thread become about having babies? I will add to the chaos...I plan to spray my seed all over the world so my off springs will be everywhere!!!

 

[e.rose]

Maybe I can change your mind. You're not the conservative type, so maybe you would like them better if you think of them as Fu(k trophies instead of children. lol, I kid!

Haha, I'm not?

I'm a sarcastic, self-deprecating, "dirty-minded" loud-mouth... definitely... but I'm not *actually* a "bad girl" type.

I've only slept with one person in my entire life (cause EEEEEEEEEVERYone wanted to know that... obviously... ... ... you can add "not shy" to my above list. ), so they wouldn't really be "f***" trophies...

And besides... trophies are supposed to be fun and bring you joy... not depression.

I would think a f*** trophy would be more like syphilis... or.... gonorrhea... or something like THAT.... something that REALLY shows that you get around!

 

[Ryan L]

I would think a f*** trophy would be more like syphilis... or.... gonorrhea... or something like THAT.... something that REALLY shows that you get around!

lmfao

 

[mishele]

Rose I give you props.........at least you aren't going to have some kid you don't want that will feel unloved and end up on welfare. Or even better a mass murder.