Any discussion can have many points of view with a grey area. People buy lenses for a fullframe for a purpose, also on a crop.
If you compare a 60mm f2.8 Lens on a crop and a 90@2.8 on a fullframe and stick these 2 cameras with 2 photographers and a model on a rock with a waterfall each side. You both have just enough Room to stand Far enough back to fill the frame with a half body shot. At f2.8 the fullframe will give a shallower dof.
Now they both want a shot with a very deep dof but light is low. Which camera will achieve a deeper dof at speeds that eradicate camera shake(iso has to remain 100). I suggest that the fullframe guy stepping back and cropping is not a good idea
His problem isn't that he has a full frame camera. His problem is that he's a moron who ONLY brought a prime 90mm lens to a shoot on a perilous rock face with no room to move. He deserves to get stuck with undesirable DOF. The other guy is probably equally dumb but just happened to get lucky this time.
You can always contrive some preposterous situation to say one product might be better. "What if a crow stole your pullitzer prize winning memory card, and you need to hit it by throwing your DSLR, and it's JUUUUST far enough away that you can hit it with a Rebel T2i, but not with a heavier full frame?! OMIGOSH crop would be better then!"
Okay... meanwhile back in real people world, 99.9% of people don't end up in situations like that and thus fail to reap any of those "benefits"