Flickr is full of amateur snaps from 20-somethings with D40's, digicams, and cell-phone cameras.
There is a lot of crap, for sure... but I have yet to be disappointed and find WAY more ideas than I could ever handle... yeah, that goes into the thousands.
I seriously doubt that in eight hours a guy could find a single picture that has eight or nine children,posed professionally,let alone 2000, or 3,000 appropriate poses for a children's group.
Was there a time frame for the searches? I did not recall mentioning one. I did a search for wedding party poses of 20 or more people this morning while on break. In 15 minutes I found over 500 good ideas. Some smaller group poses were from those 20 somethings with dSLRs... like Jesh De Rox.

Sorry, but age today in photography is not a factor for when looking for ideas. Some of the most incredible photographers that I personally know are under 30... this coming from a 49 year old guy.
As a former professional portrait shooter, I can tell you a few things that you will not find from the tyros on Flickr. First. Select your location carefully,and figure out how you are going to light the session.
Actually, step 1 (unless all you do is shoot in a studio) is "location, location, location". I always prefer to get my clients into locations that are totally new to them or extremely familiar, like their homes. Studios are so... sanitary and limiting to me. Maybe my strong strobist and wedding photography background affect that, but I am starting to not enjoy my time inside studios. They all look, smell and ending looking the same.
grandparents who are actually going to PAY for photos expect that the grandkids will be posed in mini-groups
Well, the grandparents do not always do the paying but it is basic business common sense to talk to the paying party and fine tune what they want for their money. Value add, offer ideas... exceed their expectations. I am a FIRM believer of under promise, over deliver. That is a guarantee of happy clients.
I have all the groupings that they want and I start with the largest groups (becuase they are the most challenging to work with, so work with them while everyone is fresh and energetic), and cut them down to smaller groups as required by the client. I move fast, talk quick and keep things light. I will make myself look like an a$$ so they give me natural smiles and not posed smiles, to get the shot.
Think of ways to get the heads in descending order.
Common.. standard. Unless asked for, I avoid this like the plague. I mix the whole thing up. I will tend to look for symmetry and then chaos so that I am not doing things in the same way that everyone on earth does things. I also pay attention to glasses... and tend to try to place them at angles so that I don't get specular highlights coming back at me in my lens.
The last thing you will NOT find by looking at Flickr photos is knowledge: the knowledge that PARENTS and grandparents ruin MORE family portraits than anybody else in the world.
Thats not a global truth, but it is wise to know what to do if that is the case. I've had parents politely stand to the side and be as quiet as a mouse. Some have tried to assert themelves, but a 10 second talk handes it easily enough on the rare times it does happen. That is becuase I have asserted myself and retain control of the situation from the start. This comes in really handy when you have two sets of families around like in weddings and you now have to play advocate as to who's side goes first and what has to happen in what order with which groups. This I have recently become very practiced in and love doing.
The best thing is to talk with parents and grandparents beforehand,and tell them that it's difficult to handle a group of nine kids and that they must trust you,and they must not be in the shooting area.
One kid or 9 kids, I think it a WISE move to make sure that one or both parents are always within eye sight of what is happening. The last thing one needs is to have a child scream molestation or anything remotely similar. I also would recommend that there are at least 1 gender of each people from your company in attendance (male photographer, female assistant or visa versa). Sad to say, but in today's society, this will potentially save you from being sued, or worse... jail time.
You need to have the camera framed properly and focused properly, and the best thing is a remote release,held in your hand. You can act silly, act goofy, whatever, but you must have the camera framed and the group posed and when all eyes are forward and looking good, you need to shoot. Do not try for perfection and be tight--shoot ample frames.
A question of style here, but I am not the kind of photographer that is merely "F/8 and be there"... the camera is in my hand, I am looking for angles, views, positional changes... I am dynamic, and I make the session fast moving and dynamic for my people. It keeps their attention and more motivated than some static human being pressing a wireless remote release connected to a camera on a tripod that never changes angles or position.
This makes each picture different and fresh. 60 shots of even the best poses with the same camera settings is... BORING.
Again, let me make it clear--unless you have a 2 year old with separation anxiety issues, you really need to tell the parents/grandparents to move clear away from the shooting area,and I mean AWAY from the area, not just 15 or 20 feet away.
I disagree... reasons noted above.
Parents will RUIN most large group shots by kibbutzing.
They can, and they will... if the photographer is weak in being able to control their environment. This takes people skills, tact, and being able to set clear expectations before the shoot starts. You are talking to them already... this is nothing to add into the mix. Set expectations from the start, and follow through, and 90% of all issues are avoided right from the start.
If you have a small child (toddler,infant) a squeaky toy or feather or some other attention-getter might be helpful, but instruct any siblings holding that little one NOT TO LOOK DOWN at their baby brother or sister,which is the natural instinct.
... and miss out on one of the most beautiful natural looking poses around, IMHO. The tender look of a sibling or mother looking into it's child's eyes is a powerful photo. Its not the only pose by far... but don't get locked into the "everyone look at ME and SMILE" positions as being the only ones available. Even everyone looking different directions in a very casual manner can work wonderfully. Let's make a little art, not passport photos.
While all nine together is nice, there are many other sub-groups that you could pose and which would be very nice to have for sales/goodwill/family reasons.
The more shots you have, the more they will purchase, that should be evident.
One "trick" I like to do at the end is to start with 1 person, say laying on the floor in a specific position (usually the eldest), then layer a person, shoot, add maybe 2 people, shoot and keep going by 1's and 2's until the entire group is there... but each person is close, tightly knit into the "family design" I create that ends in something very different each time. One cannot do that as effectively if the camera is on a tripod becuase as the pyramid of poses grows, my height and position dynamically changes to get the best I can find at that moment. I've only done this twice so far, and both times it ended with everyone smiling and laughing as we did the exercise all in about 2 minutes... its that fast (for 10 people in my experience, both times).
Makes it a fantastic way to end the session.
Cecile B. DeMille said "start off with an earthquake, and build UP from there..." I always, always, always try to finish off with a bang that leaves them wanting more... that is how we have happy clients leaving every time so far... and wanting to come back for more. :mrgreen: