The Gossen Starlight could do this in Zone mode. You would spot meter off a reference, place in the appropriate zone then spot meter off another region you wish to compare, I think, iirc, it would then read out the number of zones/stops over Zone X. You could even turn the dial and place the regions into different zones, so if you metered Zone III and Zone X+2, you could turn the knob so you could get Zone I and Zone X. You would then exit zone mode and it would tell you what the exposure was based on the placement of the reference.
As for spot metering and blown hilights, what I do is spot meter off the brightest region and increase by 4 2/3 stop's exposure, which is the outer limits of my camera's latitude. If anything is clipped on the shadows, I know that if I provided any additional exposure to prevent these blocked up shadows, then it would clip the hilights since my exposure compensation is already at extreme latitude. The permits maximum signal and latitude in the RAW file.
The RAW file will appear too light, but with maximum signal I can just decrease the exposure using curves in post.