Key points to remember:
I am not getting paid.
A good friend
Not my first rodeo
I did not seek this out
This is a favor to a needy family
Low expectations
So a good friend had a baby recently and wants newborn photos. Since I am a nice guy (I keep telling people this) I offered to take some shots for free. Now initially expectations are low and I explained my lack of newborn experience, but both parties are comfortable with it. I, being the overachiever type would like to do a better than expected job and produce some quality images.
Now onto the questions.
Are flashes/strobes generally frowned upon?
Can it hurt a newborn?
Natural light better?
Should I use hot lights?
What are some good props to bring.
Anything else to consider?
Okay, shooting newborns and infants is much like shooting pets...unless you're a pro at this type of genre, just give up all control, be patient and grab opportunities when they present themselves. Be prepared to have a great shot turn out that was something you didn't anticipate or plan for...but the baby had a huge yawn or grabbed a piece of your gear or buried herself under a pillow.
Okay, specifics:
1. No, speed lights won't harm babies. But depending up age, flashes will disturb them or wake them. Personally, I recommend continuous lighting. Since you're going to have a challenge posing the youngster, continuous lighting is nice b/c you see the shadows real-time. Go get yourself a full-spectrum/daylight rated CFL. It's good for the environment, it will produce reasonably soft lighting, and you can use it to keep your plants alive next winter.
2. Soft light is best. So if you're not using soft ambient light, bring a soft box or scrim. Just imagine you're shooting boudoir (in terms of how soft you want the light to be).
3. Hot lights are good. Warmth is good. Frankly, I'd see about a electric blanket that you can set on a warm but safe temperature and put the little one on that.
4. Good props? Well, depends a little bit about the age. But some nice white soft fabric is good. Swaddle the little one in that for a lovely minimalist photo. A big flower (sunflower) can be good. A puppy or kitten (especially if it will cuddle up next to the baby). A stuffed toy. Something of sentimental value to the family (Mom's old stuffed toy when she was a baby, blanket from a previous child, a crocheted pillow from a deceased grandparent). A visual joke (like a book on "Admission to Top Colleges" or a football and then put some eye black under the eyes of the baby, or a package of condoms). A big ribbon to put around the baby's head. Think of things that put the baby in scale...so years from now people look at the photos and go "wow--she was SO SMALL" b/c they see her posed next to the football or apple. Or if the baby is awake, put her on her stomach and then behind her a trail of debris (broken pot, open box of crackers, flowers on the ground, crumpled up paper, a diaper) as you shoot her from the front (her face) with the debris behind her.
Some suggestions on poses/concepts:
1. I love skin-on-skin. Have the mom in a tube top (bare shoulders), shoot her from the back (so you see only her bare shoulders, neck, and head) with the baby peering over her shoulder or resting on her shoulder.
2. Parent and baby. One of my favorites is of my wife and son (who was only 2 months at the time. She's asleep on the couch on her back. David's asleep on his stomach resting on her chest and stomach.
3. Baby on top of an unrolled roll of toilet paper. It's soft, it absorbs messes, and it looks like the baby's been up to mischief.
4. If we're talking about a baby that is a more than 2 months, put her with a pot/pan and wooden spoon (like she's been playing and drumming).
5. Think bodyscapes or closeups. A small hand clasping Mom's finger. A mouth on a nipple. A closeup of the baby's feet (especially if they're next to the feet of a toy animal or something else that puts them in scale).