I was having problems with getting the lighting right - I had closed the aperture down but it made them too dark. I was really trying to avoid using the flash because I didnt want to wake him up.
What do you mean by flat? I know I need to work on posing a lot, so thanks for the idea of where to go - I've been relying on google images for most of my ideas, but there are so many of the same shots over and over.
Focus wise... that will all be better in a few months when I get new contacts. My eyes change when I'm pregnant, but being 81/2 months now I'm not going to go get new contacts lol. Its really hard to focus even on everyday things for me right now, so I was kind of over-relying on the autofocus. They would probably be even more blurry if I had used mf lol.