I recently decided to upgrade my SLR to something more up to date as well as having autofocusing (my eyes are getting worse). I was using a Canon AE-1 and was missing a lot of pictures because I couldn't focus quickly enough.
The final straw for me came in Rome at the Colosium (sp?). They have guys dressed up as Gladiators and you can get your picture taken with them, usual tourist type of stuff. Well, when we were standing around checking everyting out I spoted one of them in an archway of the Colosium talking on his cell phone and checking his PDA. Now that looked like a GREAT shot. Problem was I couldn't focus fast enough to get it and lost the shot. Right there I decided to get a auto focus.
I was very torn between the DSLR's and 35mm. I ended up going with a 35mm and a good scanner (Nikon Coolscann 5000 ED). I now feel I have the best of both worlds. I can get great high quality scanns of my slides and negatives and slides when I want but enjoy "hard copy" of my pictures as well.
I did get the wife a 5 megapixel Sony DCS-V1 for X'mas last year and she loves it. I use it sometimes but still prefer the 35mm. The problem with her's is she takes a lot of shots but hardly ever gets anything printed out. Does a lot of "Chimping" on it though....

She also doesn't use the computer at all so I have to download and print anything she wants. Not that it's bad, just she doesn't want to do it and rarely edits anything other than imediately after she takes a shot.
I don't think film is dead, far from it. I don't have anything against the digital format but I am seeing a lot of people talking about switching back to film after using digital for awhile. Both have their place. I think if I was a "Pro" I would be more inclined to go Digital just to keep up but I shoot for my own enjoyment.
By the time film is phased out completely I am sure I will be long in the ground (and subsequently won't really care much...

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