Thanks Kundulini!! I will persevere. And you just described my process.
So I am clear in letting you know my thinking - what I mean by level playing field is what the camera would choose. Then from that place I can manipulate the settings. Someday I will know what is needed automatically without needing a starting place to guide me.
I believe I understand what you're asking. Say you're outside and see a bird you want to take a picture of. You grab your camera, which happens to be in aperture priority mode, and it happens to be set at f/11 and ISO 100 because that's where you set it last. You take a meter reading of the bird and as you're looking through the viewfinder you notice the camera is suggesting a shutter speed of 1/30. You're worried that's too slow so you bump the ISO to 200 and open the aperture to f/8. You take another meter reading and the camera is now suggesting 1/120. You decide that will work, and you take the picture.
If I'm understanding you correctly, you're asking how would you remember that the aperture was originally at f/11 and the ISO was originally at 100 before you starting manipulating them? Is that your question? If so, the answer is you don't, because there's no reason to. Those settings were incorrect (remember they resulted in a shutter speed that would not have produced the results you wanted). Since those settings were creatively incorrect, you have no need to remember them or ever go back to them.
There is no "starting place", no "baseline" when it comes to your cameras exposure settings. Every exposure will be creatively different, requiring different settings. Maybe that bird has a busy background that you want to throw out of focus so you need to open the aperture all the way up and then make changes to ISO and shutter speed as appropriate based on lighting conditions. Or, maybe there's another bird 10 feet behind the first bird that you want to get in focus so you stop your aperture down to f/22 and again make the appropriate adjustments to ISO and shutter speed. The exposure settings that your camera just happened to select the very first time you metered on that bird are irrelevant and you have no need to try to remember those settings or ever want to go back to them. YOU have to decide what makes your exposure "creatively correct"; your camera will not know what depth of field you want, whether you're trying to blur motion, stop action, etc.
So....grab your camera, take a meter reading on your subject, manipulate settings until you get an exposure that is creatively correct for you. Take picture (s). Put your camera away. See something else to get a picture of, grab your camera, take a meter reading, manipulate settings, take picture(s). Put the camera away. See something else, grab your camera, take a meter reading, manipulate settings, take picture(s). Put the camera away. Repeat infinitely. The point is, there is no baseline or starting place, and no need to remember the settings that your camera selected on your very first meter reading because those settings were wrong anyway.
The only exception to having a documented baseline might be a completely controlled environment, such as a studio.