<snip> OR isn't it more important to impress clients?
Wait! Are we talking $50/200photo clients?
You talk about rules.... well who made these "rules"?
Actually, I don't talk about rules, other than that I hate the term because elements of design and composition
AREN'T RULES.
I have had so much conflicting advice in past few days I have no clue which way to go.
Of course you are getting conflicting information. This forum is largely uneducated hobbyists. Ya get whatcha pay for!
The only certain advice that everyone has agreed on is learn the basics but after that?
After that? That's where YOU shine. Or fail. It depends what you get out of it, and how deep your understanding is.
Isn't creativity a persons OWN UNIQUE style and tastes?
Unique? Everything you posted (links) looks about the same. It's the all the rage right now.
Thousands of moms with cameras are copying each other. I don't see anything very creative about that.
Uniqueness, newness, and departure from the norm is increasingly difficult as time passes. This day and age, that new unique thing gets distributed in a flash, and thousands latch onto it and copy it. Also creativity itself doesn't speak to taste. They are two seperate animals.
Creativity has to do with how you think, taste is about how you respond.
I may like the way one film maker makes his movies and hate the other?
Yeah?
If I take a great shot of my child and the focus is there, exposure is there, atmosphere, then the composition is the enhancer, it's art through the artists eyes.
Yes, use of composition can make or break your perfectly focused, perfectly exposed image. But perfect exposure, and perfect focus does not make a successfull image alone. Further, poorly focused, poorly exposed images can have greater success when they are very well composed. Even a step further, an image with poor technique, and poor composition, can also survive on emotional impact. But the latter has to be pretty powerful. They are all tools at your disposal. When they all come together, they can make a pretty outstanding image.
I really think there are some GREAT photogos here who have given great advice but I really really am serious about learning and it's so hard when I post one photo and have everyone argue about what the "rules" are and why or why not the photo works..... how do I know how is right?
You don't, really. You can look at the work of those giving the advice, and weigh that. You can look at the $100k a year seller on Etsy and weigh that. But don't confuse making money with excellence. There is a big combination of things involved in that. (Derrel, care to insert your McDonalds analogy?)
How do you know what is right? You learn eveything you can. You listen to what everyone has to say, and you make judgements on that from your gut based on YOUR interpretation of everything you have heard and learned. But until you gain a deep understanding, what are your judgements based on? Currently they seem to be based on what others are doing, and not your own creative instincts.
So many of you come here and want to make a business out of photography, and it seems you want to be able to do it by next week.
Is that how all the great people became great? Were they great within a year of picking up a camera, or paintbrush, or pencil for the first time? You are lucky though. Portrait photography has one thing that many other art related businesses can't depend on. Emotional attachment to the subject, no matter how poorly portrayed. Easy win.