Thanks everyone, I bought the 1.8. They hold they're value, so I can always sell it down the road and invest in the 1.4 later. Still getting used to it.
I love it when people ask for opinions, then receive a unanimous opinion from several forum members, yet do exactly the opposite of what people suggest.
It just warms my heart... and makes me bash my head against my desk.
But that is totally OK ... a personal decision is not democracy. You receive the input from others, and then you have to weight it against the financial pain it will cause.
and as people said, the 1.8 is not a bad lens. and in terms of value for money it is very good. yes the 1.4 is better in many respects as pointed out here, but on a tight budget it might not be the best option.
BTW, we have the 1.4 and the 1.8 for many years now, and even the 1.8 is still alive and has not broken yet