The lens aperture is a physical opening in the lens whose size can be changed - within limits and in discrete steps.
So a lens aperture can be made bigger or smaller, and can't be 'raised'. (Some el cheapo lenses have a fixed lens aperture that cannot be changed.)
Lenses that cannot be 'zoomed' are known as Prime lenses. Because their focal length cannot be changed, prime lenses have fewer design constraints and are generally sharper to some extent than zoom lenses used at the same focal length a prime lens has.
The lens f-stop number defines a ratio of the lens aperture size relative to the focal length the lens is set to.
That's why the f/stop is expressed as a fraction, like f/3.5 or f/16.
Note that f/3.5 is a bigger number than f/16 is because they are fractions.
F/3.5 says the lens opening is 1/3.5x smaller than the focal length the lens is set to. F/16 says the lens opening is a lot smaller because it is only 1/16 as larger as the focal length the lens is set to.
Some lenses, particularly 'fast' lenses having maximum apertures of f/2.8 or larger (f/1.8 is larger than f/2.8), lose sharpness when used with a large aperture opening. Consequently all lenses have a 'sweet spot' or range of lens apertures that deliver the most sharpness that particular lens can deliver.
At some point all lenses start losing sharpness again when small lens apertures are used due to an optical effect known as diffraction.
Diffraction Limited Photography: Pixel Size, Aperture and Airy Disks
An understanding of what 'sharpness' is could be helpful.
Tutorials - Sharpness
And of course a good understanding of what DoF is and how it changes with lens focal length, point of focus distance, and lens aperture it is helpful.
Understanding Depth of Field in Photography