well ive used wifey in front of her before and she never took offense so i believe its all in context im not meaning it derogatory but if someone takes it that way i do apologize.....
now onto the actual photography side i dont agree with that at all about the pidgeons etc...so what squirrels arent wildlife photography what about cats dogs fish etc....why cause these are urban animals they lose their sense of wildness? granted if there were bald eagles on the beach for me to shoot at i would have chosen them over the sea gulls for the simple fact they are a more interesting animal to me. so i also assume that taking photos of a lion at a zoo isnt real photography either? all photos are being at the right place at the right time no matter what unless its studio work. no photo can ever truly be duplicated (in my opinion) due to the fact the lighting will never be the same the perdicament etc....so i take this from what others have said as all photography is nothing more than luck (and to an extent i would say it is) but to take something such as a pidgeon, beach, squirrel and make it an interesting and meaningful photograph is truly an art form whether it conveys sorrow cause your wife is divorcing you or happiness cause of a marriage etc...
not everyone is going to appreciate and respect all photos there are some great photos im just not a fan of thats me and i respect your opinion. as such i just dont agree with the fact that because its sea gulls or something not setup its a bad photo. im personally not a fan of setup photos or studio photos thats my opinion but to me there is a sense ans a mood you can never capture in mimicking real life