1. Shot is nifty, I'd play with lighting a bit more and maybe try to straighten the hair out
2. Sometimes a picture is supposed to have a context, sometimes not. Without the video, the context could be straight up sex, with the video, it makes the context more about love.
3. I watched the video, thought it was well done.
The difference between people "shoving it in your face" is gays don't try to mandate who you are going to marry or that you're going to hell for sleeping with someone of the opposite sex.
The only group that tries to push those values and morales onto others are the religious types.