Quite the opposite, I'm afraid.
Constant questioning of your own views, opinions and values is a good thing to do.
Either I was not clear, or you misunderstood me. I am not questioning that CC is good or bad, I recognize it as a good thing, and I do know when and where to go for my critique. However, this incessant whining about how to process and complete this process of how to both ask for a critique and then how to post one. It's been so chewed to death its beyond rediculous.
On one side we have people looking for CC and have no concept on how to accept it... and then the other side are people that have no idea how to give it. The biggest issues are not coming frmo ANYWHERE else BUT this group, if you look at it!!
I am not saying everyone is like that, but I am saying that one one side we have to tell people to water down their critique to not offend anyone, and on the other side, tell the ones that want sincere opinions to toughen up... does that really need to be even said?
By questioning yourself then you are admitting the possibility that you could be mistaken, and doing this puts you in a receptive frame of mind that allows you to learn.
You speak of the process of CCing when done properly... I cannot but agree.

This is not the issue causing us greif, unfortunately.
This is difficult I know because it appears as a threat to the ego.
Only to those that are afraid of criticism. A critique is not that, it is supposed to be a sincere attempt at sharing technical, opinion and art based information for the betterment of the person so that they can improve. If you are afraid to get a bruised ego, don't ask for a CC, simple as that, no?
I have taught people who have argued themselves into the most ridiculous and untenable position for no other reason than they cannot admit they are wrong, seeing it as a sign of weakness. It is only a sign of stupidity.
It goes even a little beyond that. That position of desiring to argue is not what your average person asking for a CC comes in with in terms of a mindset on this club. It is either someone looking for a pat on the back (attention monger?), or someone looking for sincere CC to impove. If they are insecure, they get all hurt. Thats a poor mindset. If they come in expecting a pat on the back, and get tranmpled, get all insulted. Thats a poor mindset. If they are falsly praised, they learn nothing. Thats a poor mindset too.
Pointing back to my post above, if you are asking for a CC, grit your teeth, smile and take it and THANK the person for caring enough to care to post. Afterwards, learn what you can. This is only possible when the ego and insecurity is set aside for a moment.
Any politician will serve as an example.
AMEN!!
If threads like this asking such questions leads even just one person to improve their understanding of things then it is worth it.
My contention is that I am flabbergasted that:
1 - People do not know how to offer proper critique
2 - People do not know how to accept a proper critique
... and that just blows me away that it needs to be even said. :meh:
There is nothing easier than to open your heart and speak your mind and tell someone what you think of their work on a technical, art and opinionated level and explain why you said what you said. There is nothing easier than to sit back, look at someone's CC and accept it for what it is at face value, take what you consider beneficial out of it and leave the rest behind.
That is the basics of the system that a critique should be based on.
