The Coffee House

waday · Jun 21, 2018

Fujidave said:
Today I was taking photos of the singers then I got a call from my mum. It totally ripped my heart out, as my brother who had mental health issues commited suicide, then I got a call saying my son who was on holiday in Australia had killed himself. My whole world came crashing down so I wont be about for a bit, as we are all devistated beyond words, I have to sort out going to Australia to bring my boy home.

I'm so sorry to hear this.

When you're ready, we'll all be here to support you. Please take care.

SquarePeg · Jun 21, 2018

Fujidave said:
Today I was taking photos of the singers then I got a call from my mum. It totally ripped my heart out, as my brother who had mental health issues commited suicide, then I got a call saying my son who was on holiday in Australia had killed himself. My whole world came crashing down so I wont be about for a bit, as we are all devistated beyond words, I have to sort out going to Australia to bring my boy home.

So very sorry for your terrible news Dave.

Dean_Gretsch · Jun 21, 2018

@Fujidave Godspeed to you. I am gobsmacked. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

terri · Jun 21, 2018

smoke665 said:
terri said:

reat idea. It could be called "For Men Only -

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No need to be ugly, but your idea of a men only or ladies only thread is a good idea. A place where each could speak feely without comment by the other side.

Dean_Gretsch said:
"The gender stereotyping by some members in this thread is absolutely ridiculous"...
I know, right? Wags my manly finger at Terri

...who remains unmoved by such an action. :goodvibes:

terri · Jun 21, 2018

Fujidave said:
Today I was taking photos of the singers then I got a call from my mum. It totally ripped my heart out, as my brother who had mental health issues commited suicide, then I got a call saying my son who was on holiday in Australia had killed himself. My whole world came crashing down so I wont be about for a bit, as we are all devistated beyond words, I have to sort out going to Australia to bring my boy home.

Good god. So sorry for your loss - my thoughts are with you and your family.

vintagesnaps · Jun 21, 2018

They wrapped it up then came back to her starting a tour with cameras going along, at least til they got to one of the rooms, where I imagine was to protect the kids' privacy. Most of the kids there are older and came here unaccompanied or for whatever reason may have been displaced, so they aren't the kids that just were taken from parents. So, it's good to see it, but we aren't really seeing the kids that have certainly experienced recent trauma.

This week made me think of when I was in high school and state institutions for the developmentally disabled were just starting to let people see the back wards. We started out taking a van up to do holiday parties with the kids (and adults); later did work projects (painting) and eventually went into the back wards. I saw things that today are still so vivid I feel like I was there yesterday.

No one, no child, should ever have to go thru this.

vintagesnaps · Jun 21, 2018

Oh Dave, I'm so sorry to hear that. Check back in with us when you can. Thoughts are with you.

smoke665 · Jun 21, 2018

tirediron said:
smoke665 said:

Some things I can, but I wouldn't trust them on tractor and steep slopes

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You just need to buy the right tractor!

My 4 wheel drive Kubota handles it, just near the climate controlled cab model.

smoke665 · Jun 21, 2018

So sorry @Fujidave That's terrible.

Gary A. · Jun 21, 2018

Fujidave said:
Today I was taking photos of the singers then I got a call from my mum. It totally ripped my heart out, as my brother who had mental health issues commited suicide, then I got a call saying my son who was on holiday in Australia had killed himself. My whole world came crashing down so I wont be about for a bit, as we are all devistated beyond words, I have to sort out going to Australia to bring my boy home.

I am so sorry. You have my prayers.

waday · Jun 21, 2018

limr said:
RIT color remover. The amount of color removed can be controlled.

I'll have to try this, thank you!

Gary A. · Jun 21, 2018

vintagesnaps said:
They wrapped it up then came back to her starting a tour with cameras going along, at least til they got to one of the rooms, where I imagine was to protect the kids' privacy. Most of the kids there are older and came here unaccompanied or for whatever reason may have been displaced, so they aren't the kids that just were taken from parents. So, it's good to see it, but we aren't really seeing the kids that have certainly experienced recent trauma.

This week made me think of when I was in high school and state institutions for the developmentally disabled were just starting to let people see the back wards. We started out taking a van up to do holiday parties with the kids (and adults); later did work projects (painting) and eventually went into the back wards. I saw things that today are still so vivid I feel like I was there yesterday.

No one, no child, should ever have to go thru this.

Mary Lou and Gary are discussing traveling down to Texas.

jcdeboever · Jun 21, 2018

Fujidave said:
Today I was taking photos of the singers then I got a call from my mum. It totally ripped my heart out, as my brother who had mental health issues commited suicide, then I got a call saying my son who was on holiday in Australia had killed himself. My whole world came crashing down so I wont be about for a bit, as we are all devistated beyond words, I have to sort out going to Australia to bring my boy home.

Dave, I wish I was close to you so I could be there if you needed someone. I am so sorry for your loss. You have blessed us in many ways with your presence in this forum. You are funny, skillful, caring, and considerate of others. I am going to pray for you, and your mum. I want you to know, you can reach out to me at any time my brother.

snowbear · Jun 21, 2018

Dean_Gretsch said:
Question for anyone with an ornamental pond: Is there a way to rid one of leeches and not harm tadpoles/frogs or cattails and water irises?

Trout or bass. Oh, wait. Nevermind.

snowbear · Jun 21, 2018

waday said:
Has anyone tried fading clothes or fabric with bleach?

I bought a hat online, and it showed up a really, really bright red. Looked more orange online. I'm not excited about walking around with a bright red hat. I'd like to fade it.

Any other suggestions?

Rub it the dirt for several hours. or (better) sew on a Washington Capitals emblem.