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Not sure if I've ever posted this one. Found it today doing some file maintenance. I shot this and composed the poem, at a particularly stressful time, dealing with DW's illness, thought it fitting, as it was all I could do at the time. Titled "Waiting".
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Beautiful photo and poem. I think when we reach a certain age we appreciate the little things. And things that seemed daunting when younger is viewed now as just an annoyance.
 
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Beautiful photo and poem. I think when we reach a certain age we appreciate the little things. And things that seemed daunting when younger is viewed now as just an annoyance.
This was taken on the Campus of Emory in Atlanta. DW was there for a Stem Cell transplant. It was touch and go the first couple weeks, by week 4 she was finalky good to go home. Had a lot of endless days to think.
 
This was taken on the Campus of Emory in Atlanta. DW was there for a Stem Cell transplant. It was touch and go the first couple weeks, by week 4 she was finalky good to go home. Had a lot of endless days to think.
What a stressful time for you and your wife. 4 weeks of waiting.
 
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What a stressful time for you and your wife. 4 weeks of waiting.
A Stem Cell transplant is like spraying Round Up on your yard that kills everything, then you plant seed and wait for new growth. Likewise the chemo is a deadly, short acting drug that kills everything in the blood. Then they reinsert the pre harvested Stem Cells (the seed), that regenerates all the blood cells. The process is called rebirth, because for a short moment in time you die and are reborn. The first few days are critical as you wait to see if the Stem Cells engraft, sometimes they don't. During that time transfusions keep you alive, but without the ability to regenerate you don't last long. Emory Windship Cancer Center, had two whole floors of transplant patients, DW was resilient and recovered quickly, but there were many who had serious problems with the recovery and some who didn't make it. Despite being a very sterile environment, infections were always a threat, as the patients lose all their immunities. It took almost a year for DW to recover, during which time she had to retake all immunizations from childhood on. Her immune system will never fully recover, but with care she can survive.

The downside was the procedure was supposed to give her 5 yrs cancer free, she relapsed before the 2nd year was up. Luckily new treatments keep evolving that keep it suppressed, when one quits, a new one becomes available. When Multiple Myeloma was first discovered in 2009, she was at stage IV and given 24 months at the most. Doctors didn't realize she was the original "Ever Ready Bunny", she just keeps on going.
 
A Stem Cell transplant is like spraying Round Up on your yard that kills everything, then you plant seed and wait for new growth. Likewise the chemo is a deadly, short acting drug that kills everything in the blood. Then they reinsert the pre harvested Stem Cells (the seed), that regenerates all the blood cells. The process is called rebirth, because for a short moment in time you die and are reborn. The first few days are critical as you wait to see if the Stem Cells engraft, sometimes they don't. During that time transfusions keep you alive, but without the ability to regenerate you don't last long. Emory Windship Cancer Center, had two whole floors of transplant patients, DW was resilient and recovered quickly, but there were many who had serious problems with the recovery and some who didn't make it. Despite being a very sterile environment, infections were always a threat, as the patients lose all their immunities. It took almost a year for DW to recover, during which time she had to retake all immunizations from childhood on. Her immune system will never fully recover, but with care she can survive.

The downside was the procedure was supposed to give her 5 yrs cancer free, she relapsed before the 2nd year was up. Luckily new treatments keep evolving that keep it suppressed, when one quits, a new one becomes available. When Multiple Myeloma was first discovered in 2009, she was at stage IV and given 24 months at the most. Doctors didn't realize she was the original "Ever Ready Bunny", she just keeps on going.
Thanks for sharing your wife's incredible journey. Wishing her well!
 
Beautiful photo and poem. I think when we reach a certain age we appreciate the little things. And things that seemed daunting when younger is viewed now as just an annoyance.
So true
 

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