"Camera feel" is over rated. Unless you have some weird hand deformity that makes the ergonomics of a Canon or Nikon suit you best - all of the dSLR's on the market today are going to fit "nicely".
That's not what you need to be focused on. You need to look at how robust the manufacturers lens and accessories line is: essentially who has the SYSTEM that best suits you. It's no different than shopping for a PC or a MAC (although the differences are not so severe for cameras); one or the other is going to have the suite of tools best suited for you. If you want to go on the cheap, look at Canon. Their products are more ubiquitous as is their used items stash. You would be hard pressed (once you get full tilt into this thing) to want for an item from Canon's side. Nikon is a bit more pricey, but generally (on a technical level) regarded as the "better" camera. This is however like saying who is better: Kobe Bryant or Lebron James - you'd want both if you could, but will settle for either.
Having said that, research if anyone is going to be having any deals or kit specials. You can stretch your dollars this way, as well as getting a complete package out the door.