I've been eyeing the 85mm for a while now and I am about ready to go for it. My intention is to use this lens on my kiddos mostly. Activities/crafting around the house, around town adventures like the pumpkin patch, museums, parks etc. I Imagine I will still go for my sigma 150 2.8 when doing deliberate portrait work- so I haven't even entertained the idea of grabbing a 1.4. It will be going on my DF if that is relevant. WARNING.... Cover your eyes swiftly if you can't handle buzz words In my world, Bokeh > Sharpness. So while I am not looking to spend $1k on a lens, I am willing to pay a little extra if it gets me softer balls....Bokeh balls, of coarse. So, 85 1.8 d, vs the 85 1.8 G.... Nikon? another brand?