I really hate that i can't seem to catch an image before she deletes it. I like to post my own pictures, and also learn from others, but this is no way to be. I know everyone here has basically said, 'if you can't stand the heat get outta the kitchen', so i'm not going to repeat that, just offer up a little advice. In my younger years i was a pretty accomplished clarinetist, to begin with you start out squaking, squeaking, making dogs yelp in pain from the horrible "music" coming from your horn. Then, one day you finally get it, and play with beautiful tone, intonation, and really put your heart and soul into what you do, and everyone loves your amazing music. But, it takes time, it takes teaching, and the best teachers are the harshest ones. Harsh words travel deep, they hurt to the core, and those are the ones you remember! Some people may seem to be attacking, but if you take it all in stride, write down what they have to say, or favorite the post on your computer, you could learn a lot, and so could i. You attract more beas with honey, than vinegar, and it isn't all on them, i'm talking about you, too.