You're worried about self-discharge while the camera is not in use? Don't worry about it. I don't take the batteries out of my camera other than to charge it and I have no problems with the batteries self-discharging.
Batteries last a LONG time in a true DSLR because of the way the camera works.
In a point & shoot, the only way you can see to frame up the shot is for the shutter to be open literally doing a live video shoot of your possible shooting subjects and then plays that in live-view on your LCD screen. That really takes a lot of power. When you press the shutter button, it simply captures that frame.
When you use a DSLR, the shutter is closed and the sensor isn't active. It's not processing anything. It's hardly taking any power at all. When you decide you're going to take a photo of a subject, the camera wakes up, focuses and meters the shot, then very quickly takes the shot, then goes back to sleep except for the LCD screen (which isn't showing live video.) The power drain is MUCH MUCH lower.
I've taken my camera on daily walks where I might shoot 25 photos a day for a week without ever bothering to charge the camera. At the end of the week I hadn't even used half the battery power.
When you power off your camera, you're really just disabling the button controls, turning off the display, and putting the camera to sleep. The power switch is really a soft-switch. It doesn't actually cut power to the camera. But the draw is extremely small. You could come back in 6 months and you'd probably find your camera batter still has a lot of power in it.
If you are only occasionally using the camera (e.g. only pull it out for special occasions) then I probably wouldn't store the camera with the batteries in it. But if you're shooting even semi-regularly (once every week or two) then don't bother to pull the batteries.