The "quality" of the bokeh isn't adjustable. But the intensity of it varies based on focal length and focal ratio. One challenge is that while lower focal
ratios (f-stops) tend to "increase" the effect, low focal
lengths tend to have the opposite effect and decrease the intensity. When you want to maximize the intensity of the effect, ideally you'd select a high focal
length combined with a low focal
ratio.
I did some food photography where matching bokeh between images that would appear with each other (this one was for an ad) was important.
I ultimately resorted to... (wait for it) "Photoshop Bokeh". Yes, that dreaded effect that often looks as fake as it is. So here's the results.
This first shot is actually natural. This is the result of shooting the dish at f/4 with an EF 100mm f/2.8L Macro lens. This image is not edited apart from some extremely minor tweaks. Notice the intensity of blur in the background here. f/4 was deliberate -- I needed the dish to be tack-sharp and I didn't want to go overboard on the background blur -- I wanted to make sure a viewer would quickly recognize that this is a bottle of wine, the bread, the flowers, etc. (look at this on flickr if you'd prefer to see it in a slightly larger size):
Sautéed Lake Perch by
Tim Campbell1, on Flickr
This next shot involved an appetizer presented in a rectangular dish placed at an angle. This forced me to increase the depth of field to ensure that the dish itself was sharp. I had to move up to f/11 to get what I wanted here. But look what it did to the background bokeh (or rather... the lack thereof):
Photoshop bokeh "before" (original image as captured by camera) by
Tim Campbell1, on Flickr
Since these the two shots above needed to be displayed on the same page, I didn't want such radically different effects. I decided to try the dreaded Photoshop "bokeh". I carefully selected the plate in the foreground as well as the outline of the food which goes a bit beyond the profile of the plate at the top. This went onto a separate layer. I cloned the entire image onto it's own layer so that I now have three layers. Two layers of the full photos, and one layer (on top) of just the food & plate.
I then applied a Photoshop "lens blur" to the middle layer (the layer that has the entire photo) and adjusted the intensity of the blur until it roughly matched the natural level of blur I achieved in the first image. This has one negative side-effect in that the edges of the food and plate blur into the table background in a way that looks very obviously unnatural. So the reason there are TWO copies of the background (only one of which has a lens blur effect) is so that I could use a pen to "paint" on a "clear" brush so that anything cleared would show the original non-blurred layer at the bottom. I simply needed to trace around the edges of the plate and food profile to do this and here is the result:
Photoshop bokeh "after" (blur filter added to background only) by
Tim Campbell1, on Flickr
So there you have it... fake bokeh ala Photoshop. The only bit about the fake bokeh that really bugs me (and I am NOT a Photoshop pro... so every time I work with this, it's quite a tedious struggle for me. There are MANY people who are much better than this) is that the fork on the left side of the plate transitions from nearly focused to quite out of focus rather abruptly. I wish I had managed to blend that fork a bit better (would you have noticed it if I hadn't pointed it out?)