you are nice but I was hoping for an argument

Just kidding, no you are nice, about the argument part! Learn your software, it is as important as the camera.
Thank you.
I would like to think that I am nice.
In fact, I am extremely nice...until I am not.

I am an expert at arguing but until I have a better base of knowledge I can't really back up my opinion, and I like to win.

In all seriousness though, I do see what you are saying. Thank you for taking the time to explain.
I am on this forum to get different perspectives on photography and what works and what does not work in my images.
I get a lot of nice job, that's pretty, that's different etc.
I don't find those comments particularly helpful when it comes to growing.
I (like most average people) have been taking pictures for a while but not with any thought to what message I want my images to convey.
I think when you shift your perspective from snapping a picture to composing an image with a specific intent, it becomes another ballgame.
We all have our opinions, perspectives and tastes. I find it is helpful to me to pull from a variety, which help me to form my own.
My B&W photos are stronger than my digital/color photos. I want to scan a few and post them (after my exams of course). In fact, someone actually purchased one of my darkroom prints this past weekend. I suppose that the universe has seen stranger things, lol.
I have no shame in saying that I am learning and make mistakes (whether it be technical, semantically etc).
Unless someone is willing to teach you and you are willing to accept their knowledge / experience, you don't grow.
Of course people may disagree on a subject, but it is important to understand different perspectives to be able to fully justify your own.
Plus, I don't think fighting on the internet is a classy kind of move, lol.