Not sure what lens or body you are using but....
for manual lever lens
for digital contact lens
1. With the lens attached (not with extension tubes), set your aperture
2. Press and hold the depth-of-field preview button.
3. Press the lens release button and remove the lens.
4. Keep holding the depth-of-field preview button down while you put the extension tube(s) on the camera body.
5. Attach the lens onto the end of the extension tube(s). When it clicks into place, you can release the depth-of-field
6. preview button.