vonnagy
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Had an interesting conversation with a mate (a lady mate) about fidelity. How important is it too you and your relationship?
If you found your partner/spousal equivalent cheating - would that be the end all be all of your relationship?
In my opinion, infidelity doesn't occur in a vacuum. I am not questioning that its detrimental to relationship, but is it any worse than neglect, verbal/physical abuse and other relationship killers? It always seems that infidelity is one folks talk most about. Why do you think this is? Would it be possible for you to continue a relationship in which you partner was unfaithful? What about if you had been unfaithful?
Just curious, I am not looking definitive answers, just your own humble (or unhumble ) opinions
If you found your partner/spousal equivalent cheating - would that be the end all be all of your relationship?
In my opinion, infidelity doesn't occur in a vacuum. I am not questioning that its detrimental to relationship, but is it any worse than neglect, verbal/physical abuse and other relationship killers? It always seems that infidelity is one folks talk most about. Why do you think this is? Would it be possible for you to continue a relationship in which you partner was unfaithful? What about if you had been unfaithful?
Just curious, I am not looking definitive answers, just your own humble (or unhumble ) opinions