When you enlarge the image it will likely enlarge the grain too and make it more noticeable. This might be another reason to make sure you're metering and getting proper exposures so you get good quality negatives as much as possible. Shooting in nice light could be a help reduce grain too.
I haven't done smaller than 5x7 prints. I'd suggest using the grain scope to get focused. I found it took me a bit to figure out what the grain should look like thru the scope once it's in focus.
I've used a shared darkroom at a university that made it available to people in the community; I joined the art center and then could go in and use the studios. You might think about a way to use your time in there as efficiently as possible. I used to look at my negatives at home so I knew what I was going to print. (I have a small light box but a lamp shade will do.)
Maybe have a couple or three negatives from the same strip that you want to print ready to go. When a grain scope is available, maybe you can focus one image at say, 8x10 (or 5x7). After you expose the paper, put it in one of the black plastic light safe envelopes that the Ilford paper came in and close it (assuming you have one empty.) Expose your next one, put it in the black plastic envelope. Do maybe a third or stop at two depending on how many you can do before you need to pass along the grain scope. Then one at a time slide an exposed paper into the developer, stop bath, fixer... then while it's in the fixer put the next one in the developer, etc. til you get all three in the rinse.
At least that's what I'd try and see how that works, maybe a different process would work for you. Then if you wanted to do a 5x7 of them, reset the enlarger and go thru the process again with that strip of negs. I think it might work better to stay with doing some at the same size so you don't have to keep stopping and resetting the enlarger so much.