A couple of points that helped me...
We get so invested in the "how?" that we seem to miss the more important question of "why?". Tutorials will only teach you how somebody else applied *digital effect 'X'* to their digital photo. The tutorials themselves, (
to pull viewers in and gain traffic), have to be generic and have to *sell* a look or effect, or how to make your digital photos look like this digital photo. There can be little empathy on the part of the tutorial as to your understanding of the subject, there can only be an understanding of the digital look or effect. It is key and the point of the process.
This is quite an important shift in thinking and one I don't think many realise that they are doing, that when you edit you now see only in terms of a digital photo and view it with the understanding of digital process, not your own human response to the original and real landscape/subject.
So why are you adding the process? Is it because you understand the subject and are trying to mould the process into that human understanding or do you understand the process and are trying to mould the subject into a generic digital *wow*?
What we also seem to do without question is keep following this path of *digital precision* as though it alone answers the question of how to achieve what we require. So ingrained is the maxim that technology provides the solution. But this is not true, technology provides only the mechanical/machine understanding. It does not capture the emotions you associate by memory and experience when you view a subject, and we always view with bias. We never see things correctly, we never see then as absolute reality. View an image of a tropical beach and feel the warm sunshine, hear the gently lapping waves. They are you memories becuse there is no temperature in the image, it was not captured. Take an image of a Scottish beach and many will still feel the warmth of the sunshine even though the actual temperature may be near freezing. What you see and feel is an association with your memory and not always absolute in the image.
When we chase this *absolute reality* that we think exists entirely within what we point the camera at and how we capture it a curious thing happens. When we follow this route of precision, follow the logic of how the camera works and how to optimise what it captures, the human understanding disappears and is replaced with a clinical recording. It's as if by rendering every detail in absolute clarity we remove our human bias and the room for our imagination. Although I use PS exclusively
@Derrel is right, you will start by trying to understand PS and the processes but soon will realise that you stop understanding the subject, it becomes subservient to the process. When you start to understand the subject and try to make the process subservient to that visual understanding you will find that a lot of those processes get lobbed out the window. A lot of the stuff I do now is via adding or altering with a feathered brush, it is the movement of my hand (with a graphics tab) and not the selection of logic or algorithms. YOu will find it actually makes a big difference, especially when you let go of the idea that understanding how to use PS will help, because then you seek to understand PS rather than seeking to understand the image...
Bit of an essay... Again...



Some books that are well worth reading and continue to help me:
Robert Adams essays "Beauty in Photography".
"Photography, A concise History" Ian Jeffery. A guide to style that avoids the history of the camera, an interesting and essential viewpoint.
"The Gist of Art" John Sloan. Will shift your thinking from *the unobtainable absolute* to a representational form.
BTW, I've always thought of Lightroom as a batch editor and PS as a pixel level editor, but again the way the programs work shouldn't define how you use them, it's the way the image works.